When somebody gives disinterestedly and sincerely, it enters game which truly it creates envelope what is the man and what it needs. Here it can have some detrimental act, that it makes worse to that receives an apparent one either, only because of the superficiality of that sees or a superficial one like or supreme. When somebody gives something with an hidden aim, like obtaining that the other pays attention to him, good person creates, she does favors to him she votes or it in the following elections, or that she gives to that other or she is not related to the deep needs of the man, with its development, but with its immediate desires, because generally tries to like, whereas the exigency or the call to the development usually does not like. Consequently, the extended one practical to give something to other to benefit one same one tends to corrupt, to corrupt, to be used to the other hoping to be benefitted instead of to try to be developed. , benefitted by that dacin stingy as well tends to ingratiate with beneficient his to make sure the continuity the benefit, and they do it giving him what this one tries, that in such cases is not a contribution either to human development.
So that who lives the demanding love sees before a world that, or as a result of the ignorance or of the meanness, usually it interferes and until atrophying the development of most valuable of the man. And constantly to anyone can appear it, without account occurs and it has wished without it, the dilemma between favoring or discouraging the development of the man. Almost everything what we do on a daily basis, almost everything what it crosses us in the way and demands an answer to us, is going to affect one or the other sense: when they ask to us, when they ask to us, when we solve each detail of our tasks, when we make a gift, when we take part with our voice or our vote in the collective life, etc., etc.